Live below your means is basically the mantra of the personal finance improvement world. This could be step number one in my Get Out of Debt series and it could even be the only step. The reason it’s not is that most of us don’t really understand what it means and it is much easier said than done. Lets be honest, living below your means isn’t the American way anymore. That is sad and I fear this behavior can’t last much longer (we have to get smart some day). When I got a job and went out on my own I thought I was supposed to finance a new car, sign up for credit cards, and buy what I wanted as long as I could make the payments. That’s how I thought I could afford something- if the payments fit in my budget, not how much the thing I was buying actually cost.

When I started my financial turnaround, I knew the phrase ‘live below your means’, but I really had no idea how to do it. I probably still don’t fully understand it, but I am at least putting it into practice now. It is an amazing change and I can’t believe I didn’t live like this before. You really have to embrace it and know that it is the only way you will get out of debt and build wealth. It’s common sense and it seems so obvious, but for some reason people just don’t get it. I didn’t get it and most people I know don’t get it (or they understand it but refuse to live that way).

I admit that it is difficult to do in our consumerism culture, but you must recognize the culture we live in and take steps to break free. People may think you are a bit strange when you don’t come home with a shiny new car every couple of years (unless you are paying cash for those cars) or when you don’t buy the trendy new thing that everyone wants (flat screen TVs these days), but you will likely learn to embrace being the ’strange’ one in your circle of friends. It is certainly easier to do when you know you will be free from debt some day and financially prepared for anything life has to throw at you.

Living below your means can be accomplished through frugality or by earning more income (assuming you stop your spending at some level below it). Doing both is obviously the most powerful way to accomplish your goals and make the most progress with your finances. You have to choose the way you get there based on your personal values and what is most important to you. My advice is to work hard while you can and live frugally at the same time so that when you get a bit older you don’t have to work so hard and you already have a frugal lifestyle in place. Just don’t fall into the trap of thinking that you can always out-earn your spending. You can only work so many hours during the day yet there is really no limit to the amount of money you can spend. You need to understand the trade off of your time for the dollars you earn and how much of your time it costs you to buy the things you want. Find a balance that works for you, but don’t let our consumerist culture tell you what that balance should be.

9 Steps to Get Out of Debt

By Eden, Fri 23 Nov 2007, 10 Comments, Categories: Frugality, Get Out of Debt Series